Where to Stay in Cape May, NJ

If you’re coming to Cape May, stay near the Washington Street Mall. It’s the heart of everything. Walkable, full of local shops, restaurants and the easiest access to both coffee in the morning and ice cream at night. (Priorities, right?)

Here are a few places I’ve personally stayed:

The Virginia Hotel

• The Virginia Hotel is my favorite spot! It’s elegant, romantic and just the right amount of boujee. Like you’ve time-traveled into Victorian high society. (My husband says it’s too fancy… but I say it’s just right. 😂)
• Located right near Congress Hall and home to The Ebbitt Room, an upscale dining spot. I haven’t eaten there yet, but it’s on my list!
• We had the sweetest private breakfast in The Ebbitt Room, but guests can also enjoy their morning meal in the cozy Library space. Whether you’re tucked away or mingling with others, breakfast here always feels like a slow, elegant start to the day.

 

The Inn of Cape May

• The Inn of Cape May is beautiful and cozy, with a more classic beach town feel. This is such a solid option that is a bit more budget-friendly if you want the historic inn experience!
• Located just across from the beach.
• It has Ocean 7for brunch and dinner. I’ve had breakfast there. The decor is beautiful, but honestly, the food didn’t wow me.

The Camelot Motel

• The Camelot Motel is a solid budget-friendly option for a family.
• If you’re not a fan of staying in historic Inns and would prefer more of a modern motel vibe, this is for you!
• Bonus: Bagel Time Cafe is right across the street. It’s my favorite low-key breakfast spot. Smoothies are amazing, too!

On My List: Congress Hall

I haven’t stayed at Congress Hall yet, but it’s definitely next on my list. It’s one of the most iconic hotels in Cape May. Even if you’re not staying there, it’s worth stopping by for a drink or just to soak in the atmosphere… Which brings me to the start of our itinerary!

Friday: Arrive, Unpack & Explore Downtown Cape May

Check in, throw on something nautical and head to the Washington Street Mall. No itinerary, no pressure! Just wander. This is the Cape May way. Grab your honorary Cape May sweatshirt in one of the stores!

First Stop: Congress Hall

• Start your weekend at Congress Hall! It’s always one of my first stops because it instantly immerses you in Cape May’s charm and history, and yes, you can absolutely kick things off with a cocktail.

A Little Pre-Dinner Fun

After your stroll through the Washington Street Mall, swing by for a round of mini golf before dinner! It’s the perfect way to ease into Cape May mode…laid-back and fun (unless you’re competitive like me and my husband, in which case, game on). Ocean Putt Golf is nearby and has that classic coastal charm. A little friendly competition before Frida’s? Yes, please. Winner picks the wine. 😉

Dinner at Freda’s Cafe Cape May

• Freda’s is small, elevated and absolutely beautiful. It feels like a tucked-away European café. The menu changes often (it’s BYOB!), but if the seafood pasta is on the menu…order it. Trust me.

 

Evening Activity: Cape May Ghost Tour

• The Ghost Tour of the Emlen Physick Estate is SO fun. You’ll walk through one of Cape May’s most historic (and allegedly haunted) homes. I have the best memory from doing this with my MIL, SIL and grandMIL a few years back. We still laugh about it!

Saturday: Lighthouse Views, Cape May Wineries & Dinner Out

Morning:

Start at Mad Batter…a Cape May classic. Delicious, fun and a great way to ease into your day.

Midmorning:

Head to the Cape May Lighthouse for some light exercise (AKA: stairs) and a beautiful view. There is also a little museum in there as well!

Afternoon Winery Hopping:

1. Willow Creek Winery

• Start at Willow Creek Winery because they have a great selection of food, and you’ll want to eat before wine tasting begins! The vibe is casual and fun with beautiful grounds. Keep an eye out for the ducks along the path, just one of the charming touches!

2. Cape May Winery

• I always joke that my in-laws and I discovered the Cape May Winery before it became the spot. We had it to ourselves years ago and now it’s thriving (love that for them!). It’s usually busy now and they do have table time limits on weekends…but it’s worth the visit. The wine? My favorite in Cape May.

Dinner at Tisha’s

Tisha’s is a bit more relaxed than Frida’s, but just as delicious! Also BYOB. You’ll find something for everyone here. It’s a go-to in our rotation!

Sunday: Coffee, Carriage Rides & Ice Cream Goodbyes

Morning:

Grab a coffee at Congress Hall! Sit outside and soak it all in. This is Cape May. I could hang out here the entire day.

Horse and Carriage Tour

Book a carriage ride through the MAC Information Booth in the historic district. The storytelling is amazing and it’s such a fun way to see Cape May’s gorgeous Victorian streets. I took one a few years ago and still talk about it. (Yes, I’m due for another!)

Ice Cream (Because, Always)

There are a few ice cream spots around town, but I always go for Kohr Brothers. Simple, nostalgic and located right in the mall.

Bonus Time? Wildwood Boardwalk

If you’ve got an extra day or even a few spare hours, head to Wildwood’s Boardwalk. It’s only a short drive and full of rides, games and energy. Great for kids or anyone craving a little more excitement.

Want to Remember Your Cape May Weekend Forever?

Whether you’re planning a family vacation, celebrating an anniversary, or just want to capture this season of life in a place that feels like home… I’d love to photograph your time in Cape May!

This town has been part of my story since I was a kid and it means so much to help others remember their memories here too. Reach outif you’re interested in a session!

If you try any of the spots I mentioned (or find a new favorite!), I’d love to hear about it.